16 January 2009
Friday
9.17pm


First, a change in typing style at th start.
:)

Well, I've nothing much to say about past few days.
So I'll just carry on with what happen to today's training.

To those who dont know what we really talked about during NCC training,
you can forget about reading about whats coming up
You might not really understand.

To those whom may know,
Here I go.




No man is born perfect.
And I am definitely not a perfect man.
I do have flaws.
Lots of them.
I will try to change it if you want to tell me,
But I definitely wont fall into the category of your " Superman "


Had AAR after training today.
There was this particular topic which made me think alot.

I kept asking myself again and again.
Am I really picking on him,
or am I just trying to help him change his way?

I asked almost everyone of their opinions regarding this problem.
Some agreed with me, Some dont.

I would first like to clarify.
I dont really want to pick on you.
But I just dont like the way when comments are given to you but little changes are made still.
Get the idea or something ?

Maybe you got th wrong idea,
that I want to pick on you etc etc.
But I just want to change the way things are going on with you.
Just like that.

Perhaps my approach is too blunt,
and it didnt suited you.

I apologise for that.
Seriously.

And maybe I did insulted you when I tried to correct you.
I am a man thats not very good with words.
If I did insult / hurt you.

I apologise again.


But I hope that you people can understand that I only wanted to correct the mistake.
Though I am not in charge of you guys,
but I do think I have the responsibility to correct some of the stuffs.

Afterall the rank and post I hold dont come so easily,
and hence I feel I have to be responsible for everyone in th unit,
regardless of which platoon you belongs to.
As long as you are in the unit, I have the right and responsiblity to correct you,
provided if I see it.

I have to admit my approach was probably wrong.
Perhaps another approach would be more appropriate.

I also regret deeply for those careless remarks I made on you.
I think most of the seniors that did the same feels so too.

Thoughts keep running through my mind after training.
Well, a lesson learnt for me.
And most prolly for others that did something wrong too.
Perhaps a lesson for me to learn ,
before my very own cadets come in.

I will clarify this matter with the people whom it concern during th next training.
And if any one of you do see this and have any feedbacks / comments.
Please come straight to me.

I believe criticism makes someone improve,
though sometimes it doesnt work.

Last words on this particular topic,
I apologise to those whom I hurt unintentionally,
and lesson learnt.




Well.
1st month of 2009.
And yet so much happen.

Studies have lots to catch up,
CCA problems,
misunderstandings with . . . ,

Lets hope all these come to an end soon,
and shall a smooth road be paved till my Os.


Long live people.

- Jianrong

16 January 2009
Friday
9.17pm


First, a change in typing style at th start.
:)

Well, I've nothing much to say about past few days.
So I'll just carry on with what happen to today's training.

To those who dont know what we really talked about during NCC training,
you can forget about reading about whats coming up
You might not really understand.

To those whom may know,
Here I go.




No man is born perfect.
And I am definitely not a perfect man.
I do have flaws.
Lots of them.
I will try to change it if you want to tell me,
But I definitely wont fall into the category of your " Superman "


Had AAR after training today.
There was this particular topic which made me think alot.

I kept asking myself again and again.
Am I really picking on him,
or am I just trying to help him change his way?

I asked almost everyone of their opinions regarding this problem.
Some agreed with me, Some dont.

I would first like to clarify.
I dont really want to pick on you.
But I just dont like the way when comments are given to you but little changes are made still.
Get the idea or something ?

Maybe you got th wrong idea,
that I want to pick on you etc etc.
But I just want to change the way things are going on with you.
Just like that.

Perhaps my approach is too blunt,
and it didnt suited you.

I apologise for that.
Seriously.

And maybe I did insulted you when I tried to correct you.
I am a man thats not very good with words.
If I did insult / hurt you.

I apologise again.


But I hope that you people can understand that I only wanted to correct the mistake.
Though I am not in charge of you guys,
but I do think I have the responsibility to correct some of the stuffs.

Afterall the rank and post I hold dont come so easily,
and hence I feel I have to be responsible for everyone in th unit,
regardless of which platoon you belongs to.
As long as you are in the unit, I have the right and responsiblity to correct you,
provided if I see it.

I have to admit my approach was probably wrong.
Perhaps another approach would be more appropriate.

I also regret deeply for those careless remarks I made on you.
I think most of the seniors that did the same feels so too.

Thoughts keep running through my mind after training.
Well, a lesson learnt for me.
And most prolly for others that did something wrong too.
Perhaps a lesson for me to learn ,
before my very own cadets come in.

I will clarify this matter with the people whom it concern during th next training.
And if any one of you do see this and have any feedbacks / comments.
Please come straight to me.

I believe criticism makes someone improve,
though sometimes it doesnt work.

Last words on this particular topic,
I apologise to those whom I hurt unintentionally,
and lesson learnt.




Well.
1st month of 2009.
And yet so much happen.

Studies have lots to catch up,
CCA problems,
misunderstandings with . . . ,

Lets hope all these come to an end soon,
and shall a smooth road be paved till my Os.


Long live people.

- Jianrong